As an autistic child I was thankful for my parents advocacy

By Kerry Magro | November 17, 2020


Kerry Mom and Dad

This guest post is by Kerry Magro, a professional speaker, best-selling author and autism entertainment consultant who is on the autism spectrum. A version of this blog appeared on

If you love someone on the autism spectrum, know your work and advocacy can make a huge difference.

My parents for example made a significant impact in my journey growing up with autism. They never gave up on me, especially when it came to fighting for services during my early intervention.

In 1992, not many people were actually talking about autism in the mainstream media. That at times made it difficult to not only get resources but to find resources. Research was important at the time as well because technology and the internet (Ex: If you can remember the times of dial-up modems) was still very up and coming. If it wasn’t for their research, they would have never found out about theater and music therapy which were pivotal for my early development.

I’m thankful for my parent’s advocacy, not only during times like Thanksgiving where giving thanks is a theme, but throughout the year. I think as a society it’s important to remember to practice giving thanks to the people in our lives who love us unconditionally and advocate to support us too. My parents still advocate for me as an adult who now has a full-time job as a professional speaker & author. They even advocate to break down barriers for the future generations of Kerry’s by spreading awareness & education of autism. During that work they often share candid stories of my own strengths and obstacles growing up on the autism spectrum.

My first memories of being thankful for my parent’s advocacy was when I originally found out about my autism diagnosis at 11.5. I learned more about my strengths and challenges at that time and it made me understand even more about the hours they put in to fight for me.

Thank you, Mom & Dad. I now say in my talks that ‘Autism doesn’t come with an instruction guide. It comes with a family who will never give up.’ As part of that, also be thankful to everyone in our community who loves & supports someone on the spectrum.

Happy Holidays everyone!

Who are you thankful for? Tell me in the comments.


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