Autism and LGBTQ+ identities

Research shows that autistic people are more likely to identify as LGBTQ+ compared to the general population. Some studies have suggested that more than double the percentage of autistic people identify as non-heterosexual than their neurotypical peers. 

That's the good news. Engaging communities exist for those who are both autistic and LGBTQ+. 

Check out our Finding your community page for suggestions. 

But living life as both autistic and LGBTQ+ can lead to compounded discrimination and misunderstanding.

For instance, compared with straight, cisgender autistic adults, research has found that LGBTQ+ adults experience significant health disparities, including less access to services from medical providers. 

We also know that transgender and gender-diverse individuals are more likely to be diagnosed with autism and are more likely to have other mental health conditions like anxiety, depression and ADHD. Sadly, LGBTQ youth who diagnosed with autism have shown over 50% greater odds of attempting suicide compared to those who had never been diagnosed with autism.

Autism Speaks is committed to changing this and creating an inclusive world where all individuals with autism, including those in the LGBTQ+ community, can thrive. You can join us: 

  • Become an Autism Friendly Ally and show you are committed to promoting autism acceptance and building community with autistic people. 

  • Become an Autism Advocate and work to influence policy with Congress, the White House, state legislators, agencies and regulators. Our advocacy protects the rights, services and supports of people with autism.

Below are resources to support LGBTQ+ autistics, their loved ones, clinicians who care for them and all allies. 

LGBTQ+ autistic perspectives

Brigid Rankowski
Brigid Rankowski, a disability advocate, author, circus performer, LGBTQ+ advocate, and Miss Mermaid Maine 2021, shares a personal letter.
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"I knew I was gay before I knew I was autistic." Julian leaned on the gay community to find his voice, accept his autism, embrace his identity and
Members of the LGBTQ+ and autism communities
Mark, Karen, Jose and Sarah share how being autistic and identifying as LGBTQ+ influences their perspectives on life.
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Bryan B. | 24 years old
Opening up about the hardships I’ve endured in my life has been a challenge, but I know by speaking out, I can help countless others, and that’s what matters most.
Read Bryan B.'s Story
The Mullen Family
Callan and Brennan M.
Although receiving the news that their boys were on the spectrum was difficult to fully accept at first, the couple quickly took action to get their boys access to the services and supports they needed.
Read Callan and Brennan M.'s Story

Advice for LGBTQ+ Autistics

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Specialists from The Trevor Project and Utah-based Flourish Therapy share tips for autistic people before, during, and after coming out to protect
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The healthcare system is currently not working for LGBTQ+ autistic adults. Here, Zosia Zaks, M.Ed., C.R.C., an autistic, transgender counselor who has
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Brigid shares about living her truth as an autistic, queer, fire-breathing mermaid.
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Two nonbinary self-advocates discuss how their gender presentation was impacted by autism.
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In this episode, hosts Andrew Komarow and Eileen Lamb speak with Seth Garner,  an autistic college student who is majoring in radiologic technology.

Information for parents and caregivers

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Dr. Eric Butter answers a question about autism and gender identity from parents that suspect their child may be transgender.
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Growing up as a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Autism Speaks’ Lindsay Naeder reflects on the importance of fostering inclusion and radical acceptance
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Research shows that many autistic youth, especially those with higher support needs, miss out on sex education in school, which can lead to confusion,

LGBTQ+ resources for clinicians

Clinical care guidelines for transgender autistic teens
Clinical guidelines on best practices for gender diverse autistics in clinical practice.
Emily Wampler, LISW
Therapist Emily Wampler discusses her approach to gender-affirming care for autistic transgender youth
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The Autism Care Network, a learning health network, connects families, researchers and healthcare teams to continuously improve person- and family-centered autism care.

Anti-bullying resources

Combating Bullying
Explore our resources and tools to help take a stand against bullying
Take A Stand Against Bullying
Here are 7 ways to take a stand
Bullying Facts
Click for 10 facts about bullying you may not know

LGBTQ+ organizations

The Trevor Project

Saving LGBTQ Lives, The Trevor Project is a national 24-hour, toll free confidential suicide hotline for LGBTQ youth. 

It Gets Better

The It Gets Better Project’s mission is to uplift, empower, and connect lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ+) youth around the globe. 

Human Rights Campaign

The Human Rights Campaign is the largest LGBTQ advocacy group and LGBTQ political lobbying organization in the United States. 

National Center for Transgender Equality

The National Center for Transgender Equality is the nation's leading social justice advocacy organization winning life-saving change for transgender people. 

GLSEN

GLSEN is an American education organization working to end discrimination, harassment, and bullying based on sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression and to prompt LGBT cultural inclusion and awareness in K-12 schools. 

Trans Lifeline

Trans Lifeline is a grassroots hotline offering direct emotional and financial support to trans people in crisis – for the trans community, by the trans community. 

Additional LGBTQ+ resources and support

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