Bereavement and Grief Resources

Understanding Death and Illness and What They Teach about Life: An Interactive Guide for Individuals with Autism or Asperger's and their Loved Ones
by Catherine Flaherty 
Author Catherine Faherty offers detailed, concrete explanations of illness, dying, life after death, losing a pet, and numerous other issues. Her descriptions are written with such care; even caregivers will be comforted by her words. The Communication Forms following each short topic will engage learners and include them in the conversation, allowing them to share personal experiences, thoughts, and concerns. Wonderful chapters such as "What People May Learn When Facing Death" and "Role Models and Mentors" put death into perspective in terms of life, and encourage us all to live fully. 
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Autism and Loss
by Rachel Forrester-Jones 
People with autism often experience difficulty in understanding and expressing their emotions and react to losses in different ways or in ways that care givers do not understand. In order to provide effective support, care givers need to have the understanding, the skills and appropriate resources to work through these emotional reactions with them. "Autism and Loss" is a complete resource that covers a variety of kinds of loss, including bereavement, loss of friends or staff, loss of home or possessions and loss of health. 
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Finding Your Own Way to Grieve: A Creative Activity Workbook for Kids and Teens on the Autism Spectrum
by Karla Helbert

Children and teenagers with autism can struggle to cope with the loss of a loved one, and the complicated and painful emotions of bereavement. This book explains death in concrete terms that the child with autism will understand, explores feelings that the child may encounter as a part of bereavement, and offers creative and expressive activities that facilitate healing.
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Loss and Bereavement in Autism
Children with autism have the right and capacity to grieve. As they spend the majority of their time at school, teachers and staff members will be their primary source of care and support and therefore should be trained to enable them to complete the tasks of grieving in their own way and in their own time.  
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Death, Bereavement and Autism Spectrum Disorders 
Death and bereavement are subjects we do not find easy to discuss. This natural reluctance means that we avoid discussing death until it is too late, especially with someone who has an autism spectrum disorder (ASD). 
www.autism.org.uk

Explaining Death to Children with Autism
by Dang U. Koe
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Saying Goodbye
A blog from Autism After 16 by Liane Kupferberg Carter a mother of two adult sons, one of whom has autism and epilepsy about the loss of their cat.
autismafter16.com

COMPASS Information Series: Understanding Death
If possible, a person with autism needs to experience rituals and grieving with people who love them. They will be well aware that people around them are upset and that routines are disrupted. They will react in their individual ways. This document provides a list of resources and books concerning children and young adults and death.  
www.ukautism.org